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writes: hey i am 21 years old and i live on my own with my little 4 moths old baby in a small 2 bedroomed bungalow. i have a good part time job at around £255 a month. we are sellted in our house but i am alone. i feel so empty. i do have a boyfriend that i have been going out with for 7 months (i have been going otu with him since a month after ellies dad left) we are in love. should i ask him to move in with him. woud it make us stronger. would it make me feel more comfy or would t make us both fall oudont want to be single with a baby in a house. its boring. any advice. thanx hannah Reply to this Question
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 It really depends on how the two of you relate. If you are good at being in the same space together without getting in each others way then it should be fine. Moving in with someone can really change a relationship, but you don't know how it will change until you move in... so the only thing to do is to try it.
If he does move in I suggest early on you have a long discussion about what each of your expectations are. Stuff like who cleans up what, who does the shopping, who does the cooking, and also if / when you expect each other to be home or to call each other. If you can get a simple set of rules you two are both happy to live by then you can avoid a lot of arguments.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Why do you want him to move in?
Because you are bored or because you love him?
If you really love him and care about him and want to take the relationship to the next step and you feel its right, do it.
If you are just doing it because you are bored or for financial reasons etc, don't do it because its not very fair on him is it?
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