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writes: My neighbour's daughter has a habit of hanging around at my place whenever i am alone at home. I have the habit of masturbating and she enjoys watching me. This has been going on for three years or more. Now I am getting attracted towards her and want to develop a healthier relationship. How should I go about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): Ask her if she would mind you watching her masturbate.
Whether or not there is a relationship possible is based on her one answer ;)
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 You mention that she is at your house when you are playing with yourself - do you let her in, or does she just walk in?? I am wondering - are you about 65, she 14???!!! If so, then you want locking up, better still, castrating!!
If you are in the same age group, i.e; both in your 20's or upwards, well, whatever floats yer boat, but you still seem such a perv, doing what most people only do in private...and does anyone else know??
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Oh boy are YOU heading for a fall. Can you not read your post and see you sound like a pervert. Why would you wank in front of a window were somebody can see you in the first place?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Hey Babe..
Well firstly her watching you obviously turns you both on (each to there own) its not odd :o) stop stressing over this honey ok...you to sound like your into each other in a big way she obviously likes you to cause she wouldn't be watching you otherwise, so honestly my advice to you would be to bite the bullet ask this girl out on a date to the movies or something have some fun together :o) Babe love is one big adventure just waiting for you 2 to hook up and start enjoying it together it involves opening yourselves up to the new opportunities and life direction that being in a relationship can bring you both your love will become an unpredictable roller coaster ride producing alot of pleasure for you both go ahead babe and enjoy the ride :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me babe ok, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Babe X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): You sound odd and your habits are odd too. Does this girls' Mum know what you have been showing her?
Are you an adult with a wife and family or a young lad.
Is this illegal? I don't know, but is sounds a bit immoral
and it isn't the best way of beginning a loving relationship.
You are hiding. this doesn't sound right at all.
Get into some normal behavioural habits. I hope this girl finds someone else to care about, you sound so odd
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reader, bikiniilove_xX +, writes (19 June 2006):
i think that your neighbors daughter may just watch you because most girls dont really get to see guys mastorbate. and think about it, you may only have sexual feelings for her and not even know it. because if you really think about it, a lot of the time you spend with her is while your sexually arousing yourself. i think that if you dont feel uncomfortable with her watching you thats fine, but about the relationship thing, if you really feel you like her, try it out [ while your not mastorbating ] . if it works out it does, if it doesnt it doesnt. do what you think is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Well the watching you masturbate part sounds like a lot of fun. [ponders and grins] Aside from the obvious age-laws depending on country/region, I say you just need to ask her out as in go out for a date sort of thing, unless she is a horny perverted girl which seems very likely based on what you said, then if you feel the same about that, just go for the sex.
Also, I don't wholely agree with the poster below - you don't need to be attracted to someone to allow that person to watch her/him masturbate. It could just well be s/he's comfortable with it.
Yum! 8]
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reader, Seratuki  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Well, that depends on your age, because sex is iligal if you or she is under 15, I don't mean to imply you sound young or anything, but it's best to cover your bases....
Secondly, how does she feel about you? is this just a sexual attraction that will wear off in time? you need to sit down and tell her how you feel, if she watches you masterbate, obviously there is an attraction....
best of luck
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