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writes:Hi aunts, like everybody else on this site i need help, this is a situation ive never experienced before and ill do my best to explain.Im 24 years old and a lesbian. I work as a personal trainer/gymnastics instructor i also dance in a club,if you've seen coyote ugly you'll know what i mean, not stripping but not far off! About 5 months ago i introduced a new member to the gym where i work, we got on really well during the hour, laughing alot and flirting, it was really easy to relax around her.As time went on she was struggling to fit in work commitments and the gym and asked if id help her train early morning or late night, i susgested weekends which was great for both of us. We now hang out alot and get on really well shes more of a friend than a client, which is fine with the gym as we promote a friendly atmosphere.My problems simple im falling for this women and ive never been in this situation before, ive always kept everyone at arms length having plenty of one night stands but no relationships. I know she finds me physically attractive as i do her but i also know im going to end up hurting her if anything happens. Its been noted by other members that we spend alot of time together and that she obviously uses the shower at my house after weve gone for a run etc and shes starting to take some flack. Its mainly from the guys who all know i dance, and have exaggerated my all ready extensive reputation. Thankfully she has almost as sharp a tounge as i do and soon cuts them down to size!I dont know what to do we've alredy had couple of momments together and a can't seem to stop flirting with her. Do i ask her out even though i know im v complicated or not see her anymore? Please help. Thanks x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Why do you think that you would end up hurting her?
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (2 December 2007):
 You should give her a chance even though you may think your complicated because there is always one person out there who could understand us more than we could ourselves. Have faith in this and give the poor girl a chance. If she is interested in you than she will accept you for who you are despite of what you do. You cant just push people away because you think they might not understand you. Give people a chance. They may even surprise you.
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