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writes:i appologize ahead of time or my grammar and spelling. ill be short and sweet. im falling in love with my best friend. hes so sweet and i feel like hes perfect for me. he sends mixed signals like completly flirting with me and asking to hangout and hes always there for me but he always talks about other girls. and he flirts with them too. i want to say i feel special to him but i honestly have no idea if i am. i want to know for sure. i dont know what to do. it hurts so much when i see him with other girls and i say i wont like him again, but then i seehim and he smiles at me and i forget everything. i need answers. please give me your insight on the situation...xoxo
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 its really hard at your age to decipher relationships. for a boy his age, he is definetly going to be flirting with a lot of girls. it is very possible that he feels attracted to you, but doesnt know how to come across wihout ruining the relationship. it sounds like your relationship has come to a crossroads, and after this it wont be the same. i dont mean to be mellodramatic or scare you, but its true. you need to ask him, be blunt about it because boys do NOT understand hints or clues! I also need to warn you that nothing may come of this, he is a teenaged boy, and his hormones are playing havoc with him. He may not be interested in dating, or at least not just one girl. you need to decide wether you are going to make a stand and get it all out in the open, or risk losing him to another girl.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Good to see a teenager who doesn't massacre the English language on a computer screen. Kudos to you for writing really well!
I'm going to assume you two hangout a lot with each other. I don't know what type of guy your best friend is but in my own opinion, and this is just coming just from personal experience, best friends don't flirt with each other, even if one of them is a huge flirt. You're obviously very special to him in one way or another, you should definitely tell him either way. It isn't keep that sort of love inside.
I hope that helps.
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