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writes:My boyfriend is amazing. His personality is everything I've ever wished for, and he's tall and decent looking. Despite that, I usually don't fall for guys that look like him: mature with heavy features. I usually fall for cute guys with soft features. I feel that as soon as I meet someone who IS my type, my feelings will sway and I'll end up reevaluating my feelings for him. It's not that I'm shallow, it's just that I've never dated anyone that looks like him before. Am I thinking too much, or is this something important to think about? Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (26 May 2011):
Do not worry about something that hasn't happened. If it happens, you can deal with it then, and whatever the outcome, as long as you are honest with yourself and others, the expereince will be a positive one whatever the outcome. If you like your bf at this moment be with him. If someone comes along that you like and you are in two minds, the experience you have will help you to decide what is truly important to you, and take you in the direction you need to go in your life.
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 i know how you feel, my fiance wasnt anything like i ever wanted! i was always into tall dark and brooding, with slight features that seemed almost feminine. Instead i fell for tall, broad shouldered, blonde and blue eyed! at first i wondered why i was attracted to him, he wasnt my type, but then i realized over time, he really was my type, he was the guy i always wanted and needed, and he is way more attractive to me now than any guy i ever thought i liked. sometimes what we want and need isnt the same thing! and yes that does go for guys looks lol. start looking at him differently, he is the man who will protect you, take care of you, give you the shirt off his back, and always be a shoulder for you, if you think about it, would any of the pretty boys be able to do all that for you? if some jerk is bothering you, could a little pretty boy really beat him up for you? you need to stop looking for a BOY and start appreciating the MAN you have!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): Come back to the present. Enjoy your relationship as it is in this moment, you are creating problems where there arnt any.
You obviously love his personality and he loves you as you are, otherwise you would not be together. Right? As time goes on you will only grow more closer, (if your personalities click) so you will find that what you have at the moment is more fulfilling than your usual attractive type of guy.
Just relax, enjoy being together and dont overthink things.
Good Luck.x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 May 2011):
 yep you're overthinking.
just enjoy him for as long as it's good for both of you...
my current BF is NOT my type at all... he's short and thin and I like tall beefy guys...
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