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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Please help. 7 years ago I feel deeply In love with a girl that I worked with, I know she loved me too but I was married at the time with children and she had a partner. We never slept together but our relationship was very emotional, we kissed and held each other she was like my soulmate. She ended contact with me then quite abruptly. Recently she contacted me out of the blue just to ask how I was and say sorry for the way we parted. she is married now and has a 3 year old daughter. But she says she still loves me. I told her that we could not hurt the people in our lives now and she agrees with this too but I know she loves me deep down and I still love her. Am I doing the right thing, my heart feels like its breaking. Please help with some advice. I have a way of contacting her but feel I should leave it as she is married and has a child. Will I live to regret this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Good grief!
Well, she's a little late coming forward don't you think?
When and if she's free, ask her to give a call. Otherwise, heartache is guarenteed.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 She is using you as an "emotional cookie" and a good provider to take care of her daughter. Stay away.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 I agree: you should leave it: she is married and has a child. Apparently she agrees with this idea, too. You should not try to force things.
My take is, she's not happy in this relationship, and wanted to give you a try. But then she should sort her life out first. Perhaps she was exploring what your reaction would be.
It would be nice if two soulmates could be reunited. However, it doesn't seem like the circumstances would allow that. I'm not sure whether you have an option here. Suppose you did contact her: are you sure she would leave her husband? What about the child? Are you sure you would work something out? You know, she might have second thoughts about leaving her husband once she thought of her baby.
The safest course of action is not to contact her.
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