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writes: Hi, I met a girl 4 years ago through a friend. She is 9 years younger than me. She was 15 and I was 24 at the time. We had 18 great months together. We saw each other every day over that 18 months, then she cheted on me with a guy a couple of years younger. I was devastated. She was a bit of a live wire, and I found it hard to let go. I got over her and six months later she got back in contact. I am a very caring person so I went to talk to her, found all the feelings I had for her flying back to the surface. We started to see each other again. My dad doesn't approve of her. I come from a pretty good background and she comes from a council estate, so I split back up with her. In last few months I found out she had been pregnant and a couple of weeks ago she had a baby, not my child, a guy who had been beating her up and stuff. I still love her very deeply, and she's so alone. We have been out with the baby, and I felt myself getting close to the baby, so I finshed it last night, told her it was for good, cried my eyes out all last night. I do really love her, but don't know what to do for the best. Can someone give me some advice please? Reply to this Question
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 This woman has loose morals, she cheated on you in the past, she now has an illegitemate child by some other guy
who beat her up & now she expects sympathy from you...
I feel that you know in your heart that she is not good for you.
Your better judgement came to the surface last night & you probably know that your decision to not see her again was for your own highest good.
Just confirming what you already know... I do think you have made the right choice.
Take Care Of Yourself, you sound like a real genuine & kind person.
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