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writes:Just a quick question I would like some advice on, its actually about a friend of mine. Him and this girl that he was friends with for a while maybe a year ended up dating for a few months and it was maybe 3 or 4 months. In that relationship they really liked eachother but never had any intimate moments what so ever, they kissed but never made out or anything it was almost like they were just friends but titled as dating. He also knew her best friend and was friends with her the same amount of time that the two couple knew each other. After they had broken up they mutually decided to go back to being friends since it seems like they were just better off that way, after all life is all about trial and error. Since then time has past about 2 years and he still had feelings for her a little bit after until he found someone else and was fully able to move and they haven't seen each other in about 7 months. The two fully understand that the past is in the past, there is no more feelings almost like they never dated, but he is starting to crush on her best friend but doesn't know why. Considering all the circumstances of the situation and the time that has passed and it was a clean break up, mutual friendship do you think it would be okay if he were not really try to date this girl but to see if there was potential maybe get to know her outside of his ex? This is a touchy subject but I feel if they were both over the past and maybe the friend and the ex would possibly be great for each other. Thank You.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (1 May 2009):
 If it was a clean breakup then there shouldnt be any hard feelings about him getting to know her friend better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to add after my friend and that girl broke up since it was mutual and both parties feelings have become to the same level as a friendship, actually all of them hung out quite a bit, but he felt like some connection was coming from the friend. Keep in mind ALOT of time has passed since then and actually all 3 of them dated other people so obviously they would be over eachother.
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