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writes: I am 17 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years an we love each other so much.We broke up 4 a couple of weeks last year and he had a drunken 1 night stand. The girl was his mate and now shes pregnant, shes known 2 get around alot an shes sayin its his. He doesnt want nothing 2 do with her or the baby and i dont no wat 2 do, i dont think i can be with him when the babies born cause he might want it when he sees it. hes currently not talkin 2 her and wont. She has also told him thats shes always wanted a baby an thats why she never uses protection, shes a year older an seems to be very imature. i really dont no what 2 do.....Every1 seems pretty sure its his, cos she told every1 it was, but i cant wait til its born for a paternity test, shall i just let go or show this slapper that we are ment 2 b together cos 4 some reason she doesnt like me even though wev never met please help me!!1
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2006): Im in almost the exact situation. im 16 my boyfriend 17. my boyfreind and i have also been together for about 2 years and we broke up for a month or two...he got this girl pregnant and it's his for sure. i decided to stay with him becuase we are so much in love and i wouldn't be able to leave him, the baby is due in july and i'm trying to get ready to be there for him like i now he expects me to. he decided to take responsiblilty for this child and he's going to be there for it...i guess this means im going to be here too. i posted this question january 12...u can look up some of the answers i got.
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reader, Listerning Angel +, writes (10 February 2006):
Well i would personally be with him until he has a paternity test, just because she says its his there has been many occasions where they find out the father they thought was the dad isn't, especially if like you said she sleeps around. If the results come up that he is the father then he will have to see the child and pay whats due, so i think you should take some time out and just have a good think about whats going to have to happen in the future and can you deal with it, but if you feel you can't please don't just stay with him to prove to her your ment to be, only be with him if thats what your heart truly wants. And also i would go have an aids test aswell cause if hes been and had sex without protection with her and she has been sleeping around unprotected with other guys its always better just to get checked out with your local GP.
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reader, Seratuki  +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Well first off..
Drunkeness seems to always be the excuse for cheating like that..and it's not..he has to get a DNA test to prove one way or the other.
You need to ask yourself, if the child is his, are you willing to stand aside and let him have contact with her and the child? He has to pay child support even if he's not with the babies mother, which means he will have contact.
Are you willing to take on all the drama that is ure to come with a situation like that?
Can you really build a relationship with someone who could just go and have unprotected sec like that, blaming it on drunkeness?
You're young, and you need to look out for yourself first, have a chance to be a young adult without all this mess...
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