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writes: I'm 17 female...I've been going with this guy (kissing haveing sex) since October I really really like him and hes the 1st person that I've like since my ex 2 years ago.Thing is I seen him every Satuarday since October untill last month...so I never seen him for a month.He told me this Saturday he has a g/f...but we still kissed n slept together...he wanted me to stay over at his but I couldnt...he seems to like me more than his g/f...she seams a bit of a bunny boiler coz she was constantly call'n and text'n him all night,and he kept say'n that she was driving him crazy n stuff.Thing is I just donno what to do if I give up I could lose something really really good that I've waited a long time for but if I wait I could be left so f***ed up...I really need good advice here please.I just dont wana give up coz I've beeen single long enogh n everyone else seams to have some1 exept me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): first of all you really do need to make sure that you dont just want to be with him because you're scared of being alone. regardless of the fact that all your friends have boyfriends. Also you need to think about what has happeneddid he actually tell u he had a gf from the start? if he didnt, would you ever be able to trust him 100%? And why havent you seen him for a month? maybe hes already decided he wants to stay with his girlfriend. Just remember there are plenty more men out there, and you are young so keep your options open x
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (6 February 2006):
 dear reader seems to me your in a bit of a pickle but for one thing you need to make sure yourself that your not just with this guy coz your scared of being on your own.
your still young so try not to put all your heart and sole in if your not 100% sure.
if your completely sure you want to be with this guy then don't give up, if his giving you all the signals that your the one he wants to be with then you need to say something,lets face it he can't really lead you both on its just not right at the end of the day someone is going to get hurt whoever it is this needs sorting before things get any deeper.
this has been going on long enough don't you think something needs sorting i wish you good heath and happiness hope i've helped in some way xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2006): You are 17 and are worried about being single - you are too young to be thinking like that. Fair enough that you would like to meet someone - that is perfectly natural but you are casually sleeping with a guy who is attached. You are not in the wrong but how can you see a future with a guy who sleeps with other women through relationships - why would you want to be with someone dishonest like that? Don't settle for this guy just because hes convenient - go out with your female friends and try and meet someone who wants only you and not just a bit on the side!!
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