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female
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anonymous
writes: Hi all.. I was wondering if anyone could help me at all, i dont seem to be able to have a boyfriend. My friends say im bubbly and outgoing but when it comes to meeting nice guys it never happens, they always seem to either want one thing or a fling. I aint trying to hard, ive just been myself so im obviously doing something wrong. Im nearly 22 and have never ever had a serious relationship, what can i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006): What is a nice guy? Good looking, confident guys fancied by all will see all women as sex providers. Look among the less confident ones. They will appreciate you more and stay with you longer.
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reader, qschick +, writes (6 February 2006):
What you can do is stop looking because everytime you do, someone comes along. Its happened to a few friends and me included - I had broken up with a bf and had a few flings and was not enjoying myself at all, when a work collaegue chatted me up at a noteclub. I didnt really fancy him so I didnt snog the face off him THAT night. However through the power of email we got to know eachother and hooked up the following week and have bn together a year and a half now. I truely believe that if you stopped searching for a relationship and stopped feeling like you NEEDED one, then someone special will come along!
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