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writes:Hello everyoneFor this post please could you refer to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-havent-misunderstood-her-she-definitely-used-to.htmlas this post continues from that previous one.Bascially I sent her the note a week ago and I still feel terrible, I understand as India said gave her space (which I sware I have done), and give it time (I am).She received the note, although she pretended not to care when I know she did. A day or two afterwoods (whilst I continued to follow India's advice), I noticed her looking at me occasionaly and she talked to me slightly (saying hello, thanks etc which is quite a step from before) lol.Another few days past and then, it was terrible she got a new boyfriend! He is a right idiot, I feel she is with him for popularity as their is no emotion between them at all! One lunchtime I passed her and I looked her with a look of upset and my desire to be with her, she looked back at me with a look of unsuriety and upset.My friend feels that she has gone out with him to show me sign, he thinks I should tell her how I feel once they have split up (which is most probable, I hope!).She can see my upset but I just feel so sad, I just want to be back in time when she hugged me so tight, I never wanted that moment to end.Shall I tell her how I feel?Any help would be appreciated!ThanksG-763
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 Hi there, again.
Do I think you should tell her how you feel? No. Why? Because she already knows. You're doing the right thing, playing it cool and not letting the drama get to you. As for the new boyfriend, maybe he is just for show but do the honorable thing and don't involve yourself. If you tell her how you feel then you'll have an angry, jealous boyfriend to deal with.
So young, these relationships come and go. Girls can be fickle, so I wouldn't worry too much about the boyfriend.
She knows how you feel, and I don't think you need to push it any further. Use your intuition, and stay strong.
Good luck and keep cruisin', sweetness.
xxIndia
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