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She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??

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Question - (24 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Is this another Texas thing? Seems to be common in this day and age around this state.

If she is cheating on him with you.....then whats to stop her from cheating on you with another guy too? She is obviously bad news....go get another lay that is either single or just plain ugly.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

She isn't your girlfriend, she's someone elses. And its the nature of the beast unfortunately. All the while she is with someone else, and your the other guy, things will be very unpredictable. The bit on the side has to accept that, or quit it.

C xxxxxx

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A female reader, Jolie Malta +, writes (24 March 2008):

Jolie agony auntHi ,

Do you think she is your 'girlfriend??' If a person cheats on her opposite sex than she'll cheat on you too. You can never trust a person like that. If she is ignoring you why are you worrying?? she is not worth it ....don't loose your mind over her there are more to see in life and enjoy life.

Goodluck with your choice

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A female reader, Jolie Malta +, writes (24 March 2008):

Jolie agony auntHi ,

Do you think she is your 'girlfriend??' If a person cheats on her opposite sex than she'll cheat on you too. You can never trust a person like that. If she is ignoring you why are you worrying?? she is not worth it ....don't loose your mind over her there are more to see in life and enjoy life.

Goodluck with your choice

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (24 March 2008):

kenny agony auntPersonally i would treat this as a lucky escape, things could have ultimately got alot more messy than her ignoring you and not calling. If she is cheating on her boyfriend with you then she is more than capable of cheating on you with someone else. Let it go and forget about her, she does not sound worth all the worry, You have had a lucky escape, you need to find a girl who gives you the love and respect that you deserve.

Good luck

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A male reader, molar305 United States +, writes (24 March 2008):

molar305 agony auntI've done that before, and everytime i find myself getting cheated on after i have successfully "worked it out". women like that do not change b/c they found the man for them. the solve their problems by looking for more men, at the slightest sign of boredom. it doesn't need to be anger, or frustration, sometimes boredom is enough. Let me offer this little bit of advice, if she's cheating on someone to be with you, what is going to stop her from cheating on you if and when you start dating? And if you still want her, ignore her, don't call her and become a bit more "inaccessible" its childish but she will start asking herself if you found someone/thing better

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