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*sLaverne
writes:Well, I've been with this guy about 2 months and knew him about a year. 4 days ago he left me. He said that his feelings for me changed, he said at first he was really happy but then about a week ago he changed. He said that he didn't love me as much as I do. He said also: For you I'd wait till kingdom come!Once he said he loved me and about a week ago he also said that he would never leave me but then see what happened....He seems really confused about his feelings for me. How could he not love me after all we've been through? Will he ever come back? He also said that maybe in the future there would be another chance for us to be together...We still remained friends and yesterday I spoke to him just as friends and he really talked so much! as he always did...I still love him...should I wait a little bit for him to come back?
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reader, MsLaverne +, writes (6 April 2008):
MsLaverne is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey...just some updates...I need help! Well...this same guy in the story...he seems he still likes me! I mean he always sends me a message every saturday to go out with his friends...and yesterday my friend and I went out with them. He tried to spend a lot of time with me and even a friend of mine, when we were at a disco, told me: is there something going on between you again?! :S He nearly danced with me! And when I told him goodbye, he gave me a sweet smile and looked directly into my eyes!!! :S What do you think?
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reader, MsLaverne +, writes (24 March 2008):
MsLaverne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advuces. If anyone wants to give me other advices, I would really apreciate it.
I'll just give him some time for his own and maybe he'll reflect on what he has done.
Right now he's on msn, but I'm not going to talk to him so that he won't think that I'm still running after him and pressure him more. I would lose him even more.
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reader, Barrel14  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 id say wait a while but Not forever
if the opertunity comes up for u to get back together w/ him make sure he still loves u and u still love him..if u dont feel the same about him ne more then Don't say yes.
there's no sence in loveing someone who doesnt love you back and will just break ur heart again
and dont become a 2nd rescource...ur special in your own way and wait for someone who realizes that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Honey, you say 'after all we've been through', but knowing a guy (or a girl) a year isn't long enough that they will recognise you as someone who they need forever. It is very common for young people especially to say they will be there forever, and to disappear soon after. They might be manipulative, they might just be confused.
Whatever the case, waiting for this guy will only make you sad. I cant tell you not to--i waited, i got back with my ex, but it was just worse than ever. Just remember, if he broke up with you like this, how could he EVER love you unconditionally? Only wait if you think you can handle the pain of knowing it won't be forever and it may be never. Good luck xxx
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