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writes:I feel like I'm in the shadow of my girlfriend. She's smarter than me, she's more attractive than me---she's even stronger than me! I just don't understand why she'd want to hang out with me when she's so amazing. Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (7 September 2008):
 I don't know, but have you seen "That 70's Show"?
You sound like Eric Forman. His girlfriend is Donna Pinciotti and many people wonder why she's with him. She's beautiful, hot, intelligent many people like her and she's very strong. Meanwhile, a lot of people see Eric as wimpy, undecisive, and kind of dumb.
He asked her why she was with him because they "contrasted" so much. Her answer was because he's a wonderful guy, who makes her laugh, treats her right, and makes her feel special. He's always there for her and never bails out; her best friend.
So, what I'm saying is, don't you think that she sees these same things? There's a whole world out there that doesn't only focus on looks. She's one of those people who saw you as WHO YOU ARE and never judged you for your looks.
And who knows, maybe you're quiet handsome but you don't see it! Low self-esteem is not only found on women, you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): Just a thought... because she damn feels like it?
Maybe, for some stange reason, she actually liks you.
Seriously... you have a hot woman who wnats you... best not to tempt fate. Just grab on and never let go.
Flynn 24
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reader, molly4  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 dont wonder why shes with you, just enjoy it and be your best. enjoy having fun together without wasting your time wondering!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): maybe to feel better about herself? lol j/k j/k
sometimes people we like see a lot more in us than we do ourselves...
I remember once my friend was talking about me and I was like "wow...I didn't know I was that cool" it's all about perception
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