A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey im in a situation. I met these two guys online at a dating website. Guy A became interested in me, he talked for a little and then he starts getting very interested in sex and now that is all he talks about. When we talk online all he wants is naughty pictures and talk about his sexual fantasies and such. If we try to talk about anything else, we cant. He just doesnt say much else.Guy B is really sweet. We seem to have a lot in common and we can talk forever. We talk so much online that we even have pet names for each other and always send each other virtual kisses. He seems to really like me as a person and thinks i am amazing just by the way i talk to him.I know it may seem like a nobrainer here but here is the problem. How do I get guy A to think I am not interested? I met him first and expressed interest in him and eventually got sucked into his sexual fantasy trap. All he wants to talk about is sex. I dont want that. He texts me sometimes out of the blue and says he loves me and i dont know if he really does. I am afraid to hurt his feelings by saying I dont want to be with him.Guy B also knows im interested but I liked him because we seem to have a connection and theres a lot more in common and hes not only interested in sex. We can talk about everything and he says the cutest things to me. I think this guy is the winner but how do i tell guy A that im not interested? Im really not too sure if i really want to be with him especially since he wants to talk about sex all the time. I want Guy B but at the same time i dont want to hurt Guy A's feelings. I would love to hear your advice on this. Thank you sooooo much! :)
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 September 2008):
Sweet heart - Guy A is not going to care if you cut contact. He doesn't give a crap about you other than the fact you take part in his pervy fantasies. He won't even talk to you because he doesn't want to see your personality as that would ruin it. You are free live porn to him. Most women who chat like this to a guy charge for the privilege.
Send him a message saying you've met someone so it has to stop. Sorry and good bye.
Delete his contact details, block him on MSN and stop returning messages.
He's probably got 3 other girls on the go anyway so you aren't going to be much of a loss.
Good Luck!! xx
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