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writes:I am in a relationship with a "now"divorced woman of 52 yrs.We regularly have discussions,and Im told repeatedly...Im shouting at her/raising my voice,but she has 50%hearing loss in both ears,she wont wear aids....she feels like because she pays most things...rent etc...I have only a part time job...Im not permitted to have much say.She also has a serious money spending issue....when we get "initmate"she thinks about the times we argue,and says this,and stops ...dead...!She says I dont respect her enough,and she also has explicit tastes for foods,many of which I cant afford....She is a beautifull woman,but she is also very demanding of my comments to say this....she is also very very jealous...For 3 years,we have been having cultural indiffernces....yes Im from southern hemisphere...way down,shes british....What do I do...she also will not forget my past failed relation ships....she has 3 daughters,from a failed marriage,all now working...her ex was an alcoholic.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 I think the first thing she needs to do is wear her hearing aids :-). That would help a lot in your understanding each other :-).
Seems you two are not made for each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2012): The important words here are 'demanding, jealous and possessive'. Beautiful on the outside but very 'high maintenance'. Sadly, I feel that you have little choice with a woman like this. You either go with the flow or ship out. Realistically, she won't change and I think you know that.
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (16 May 2012):
 Just because a person is beautiful on the outside doesn't mean they are beautiful on the inside! It doesn't sound like she brings you any happiness other than looking at her. I learned a long time ago that most (not all) beautiful people are not that nice and use their looks to get what they want. Perhaps your lady is one of those? Honestly you might be much happier to find a lady with a beautiful personality/soul. She might not be as attractive on the outside, but she'd probably make you much happier in the long run. And remember...looks fade, illness/accidents can take away beauty very quickly. So then what? You've got an unattractive partner both inside and out??? You might want to think about that. good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 May 2012):
 Are there any good things you wish to share about this relationship? If there are no good things to outweigh the bad then it’s best to end the relationship.
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reader, Read-the-signs +, writes (16 May 2012):
The relationship is clearly making you unhappy and stressed, so I see nothing positive in continuing it. I think you are looking for confirmation of this so I advise you to end the relationship.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (16 May 2012):
 Hi
I really don't see the point in continuing this relationship, you have not stated one positive thing about it.Just that she is a beautiful woman. Well thats not enough reason to stay is it
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