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writes:Me and my Fiancee always argue and fight and those fights lead to us breaking up because we said things taht really hurt each other? The other day i said thing in front of her mom and she was mad and she said that we can not be together. And my fiancee swear on her life that she will not going back to me ever. I know that i lost her please help me to get the life of my life. Without her i can not do nothing , i think about her everyday, please let me know if you guys can help me and if you want her email i will give it to you so that you can write her, please help me because we both have an anger problem
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (16 October 2007):
Write he a letter of apology. tell her you love her deeply and want another chance. Wait at least two weeks before contacting her again.
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 October 2007):
 You are desperate. Not good when trying to get your girlfriend back. You offered her email address. That's not a good idea. I can't even tell you how mad she'd be knowing you went from talking to her, to requesting strangers contact her.
The best thing for you to do is acknowledge her feelings. You said to give you back your life with her. Can't happen unless she decides to allow that to happen. It's her choice to be with you as it would be your choice to be with her. Saying things in front of her mom was probably not the best choice. Now you've shown yourself in front of her also, and I bet she's really on her daughters side to keep the both of you separate.
When a relationship breaks up, people really aren't that stupid. They know it's not a good idea to go back into a situation that they left. If they did, the same outcome would be there. The best thing you can do is change yourself. Stop hounding her about getting back together. If she does give you an opportunity to really talk, you'll have to without anger. You'll have to meet her at her feelings and not what you want. Before that time, you need to seek help with your anger. She'd be more likely to listen if you've taken action toward a positive change.
I wish you luck.
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