A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: You saw a girl that you like very much, she is sexy and attends college. When you are trying to know her, someone tells you that she was forced by a guy she was dating for about 2 weeks to perform oral sex on a him once. She leaves the guy after the incident. Would you still interested to date her or to know her after what you have heard that happened to her.
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reader, sexi +, writes (13 August 2007):
Hi,dont believe what you hear from other people.99% of the time it is lies and the only way you canget thr truth is from her. You should try to get to know her better and you might realize that she is nothing like what you have heard.dont listen to anyone besides her. Once you have the chance to speak to her and she tells you her side of the story,then you can decide if you want to continue to persue a relationship with her.
Good luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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female
reader, penta +, writes (13 August 2007):
(1) how do you know this really happened?
(2) if it's true, why is this a reflection on her? she was forced. get over it.
(3) if this still creeps you out then by all means, do the girl a favor and stay out of her life. Your loss, not hers. She needs a friend and it doesn't sound like you can be that for her.
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male
reader, Jamer70 +, writes (13 August 2007):
Well if she was forced than it wasnt her fault and its rape, which she has no play in so is not her fault what-so-ever.
And if you cannot get past this then do not date her or think about it, but if she was forced to perform oral sex it sounds like she needs a friend rather than another man for the time being.
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