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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Does he really like me or is it just when his mates aren't there??My boyfriend is 16 and i am 15 and we have been together for about a 6 weeks now. At first he was amazing and we were always together then he was always with his mates somewhere else and whenever i phoned him he would tell me were he was and when i went he wasn't there. My mates have told me to end it with him because he clearly doesn't care about me at all. Then we have started being with eachother a lot more but he still doesn't seem close to me at all and dosen't talk to me unless we are on msn or txting. I don't know weather he is ashamed of me or just doesn't want me there. He has told me he doesn't like having girlfriends but he asked me because he really likes me. We had an argument about us being together and he told me to fuck off ect. Then 5 mins later he txted me saying sorry he doesn't want to lose me and stuff. So i really don't understand. Then the next time i saw him we were better than we origanally were. Then he phones my best m8 (they have always hated eachother but try not to argue for my sake) calling her a slag and stuff so she give me the phone and he said tell her what i said and i did then he started calling me it and hung up and we havn't talked since and i really don't know what i am suppose to do. After 2 weeks off me going with him he asked if i would ever shag him or nto and he said he would wait but i know thats not true. Help plzz!! .x.o.x.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Boys of this age are difficult to read because they aren't completely real. They are about half show for their friends. My read on this guy is that he does like you but that he is concerned about being "cool" around his friends.
But there is a red flag here for me. He has told you to fuck off and to me that is an indication that he does not respect you, truly. Show or no show, when a guy respects you (mind you he can still like you) he does not call you a slag or tell you to fuck off.
Another red flag is that he asked you if you would ever shag him. I am thinking that he may be after sex with you, regardless of liking or not liking you.
I think this boy lacks maturity, respect for women and he will not be a good boyfriend. There are plenty of other boys this age who offer more than he does. Let him pal around with his friends where he is clearly more in his element.
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