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*essIzFit
writes:Hello guys,I got great advice last time I needed help so I wondered if I could have some advice again. You know that gal I loved on line before, well she is down here at the moment and my mum is okay with it now but the thing is she wants to have sex with me but I am not sure how you do it with a gal ? I am also not sure I am ready for it yet so don't know how to tell her. She is going back home on monday so want to make her stay nice but i don't want her to feel like I hate her for not wanting to it with her. I do in a way but scared that i may not do it right. Also she is 15 and I am 13 so i wondered if the age difference changes anything ? I am in a pickle =/Thanks for reading this and I'll be so grateful for any replies,Cheers guys,LouiseXxxXxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): Hi, if your not ready tell her so, if shes worth going out with she'll understand, please don't give in to her just to keep her happy, it is really bad doing things your not reday for and you'll regret it.
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reader, myp  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 If your not ready then you shouldnt have sex with her, chances are youll regret it later. Just tell her how you feel. If shes truly right for you then she'll understand, if not then dont let her make you feel guilty, stick to your guns. Do whats right for YOU! If, at the time you do feel like your ready but you have questions about lesbian sex, ask her about it. Lovers should be open about their experiences, and im sure shell be happy to explain it in detail. =i
Much love and happiness
-Myesha
message me back if you have questions =)
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (16 June 2007):
 You are way too young to be even considering having sex. I dont want to get on a lecture with you about this, but I had to say it! Having sex with her will not give her a 'nice visit'. It will complicate your life beyond imagining! Yes, you should make her visit a nice one, but that involves only doing things that can be done in front of other people. I am pretty sure that anyone else who advises you on here will agree with me that the answer for you is to not have sex. That said, if you choose to ignore us and go ahead with it, please get some condoms. Do not trust that she is on birth control or that she just wont get pregnant. She will. And then so much for a 'nice visit' you are raising a baby and wont have any 'nice weekends' for a long long time.
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