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writes:I've been married for 6 years and we have 2 kids together but my wife says shes changed and wants different things from life and isnt in love with me anymore. I moved out last week to give her some space and I've told her i'm willing to change and do anything to make her feelings come back. Do you think I have any hope of her falling back in love with me?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Please do not change who you are in the hope she will fall back in love with you after all she fell in love with you as you are. Can you give us some background info on the past year of your marriage and the reason that i ask is because ten months ago my husband turned round out of the blue and told me he did not love me anymore, he moved out and is now living with someone else yet last week we went to a family funeral together and the whole day was very emotional and we talked in great detail about us he has now told me he is in love with me and he now knows he always was and we are on the road to recovery, so there is hope, maybe your wife does just need a bit of space just make sure you tell her that you love her and you are always there for her.
Take care and stay in contact if you want.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 June 2007):
 People change all the way through out their lives. I believe we continue growing up right until we die as we are always learning new things.
I don't think you should "change" who you are in hope for your wife to fall back in love with you. If you used to do things that annoyed her and you want to change those then that's fine.
I wouldn't hold out on the hope of her falling in love with you all over again, but be there for her and show her you are willing to have another go if she is. If she has definetly made her mind up then I wouldn't torture yourself by trying to win her back.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 you know, thats the problem with getting married so young. You have no idea whats out there yet but you think you want to start a family. It sounds like now she has realized that. There is no telling. The most you can do is be there if she wants you to be and maybe try to be more fun like when you were dating. But, it sounds like her mind is made up. Not to be mean, but she may have already picked someone else out to spend time with.
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