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26-29,
*zzygurl
writes:Hey everyoneI ask a question about me never being in love, I said If I could change anything to get a guy to love me. And all the aunts that answered told me no, I'm perfect the way I am. I really appreciate your advice. So here's the thing I met a guy the next day on Facebook, I was searching for someone else and his name came up, and I felt like adding him, he ask me how I found him on Facebook and I told him, and he told me he's glad his name came up. and the good thing's that best friend knows him and they went to the same school together. Me and the guy have been texting and talking nonstop on the phone every single day since we meant. And i'm having this weird feeling when he text or call me I've never felt before, I get a numbing feeling in my hands, and my heart starts beating faster, and I can't sleep at night, because he's always on my mind. He told me he cared about, and he talked to my bestfriend, he told her he liked me a lot, we've not seen each other yet but we planing to go to the movies. And I more thing, he's different from guys I've met, he don't ask me for naked pic, but he just want a normal pic. He makes me feel better when I'm sad. We've been through the same stuff, he lost one of his parent, I did too. I've Never felt this way before about anybody. So What you guys think? Do you think I'm inlove?. And one last thing he's 16 and I'm 17, it don't really matter to me.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (24 July 2012):
Meeting someone online allows you to see only the side the them that they want you to see. At best its a very incomplete picture. If you think you are falling in love, you are falling in love with a picture you have likely completed yourself, and most likely not what actually is.
This is why I think meeting people online is at best foolish and at worst dangerous. There are plenty of people you can meet face to face and live.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 July 2012):
 It's not love... but it's like... and a crush...
just go very slow and get to know him... slowly...'
and relax.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 It is clear you are developing a crush on him, and you enjoy communicating with him, I wouldn't say it is love as you have both never even met or your not in a committed relationship. I am aware that this is all new to you, and all you are experiencing is quite normal. But just remember once you do meet him just take things slow and see how you both get on face to face. Who knows he may very well be the guy for you, just don't expect to much and take things as they come. Good luck.
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