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writes: I'm 21 and i started liking this girl at my work for over 7 months but i havnt said anything to her. We are really close, we talk about almost anything, and more than half the people at work think that somthing is going on between me and her. But that hasnt changed anything in our realtionship. But unfortunately when my friend at work asked her about me indirectly about if she would date me, she said she looks at me as her brother. Now is there any hope left here, because if there is any left i am willing to take the risk. Thanks for any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): I really fancy this girl i work with, we flirt all the time, we share long glances across the room, we whisper sayings to each other. I am totally besotted by her. The other day i called her my little sister, i think the reason was to try to disguise my feelings for her.
I think when you truly fancy someone you mask your feelings for them, you say opposites of whay your feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): she could be saying that, because she doesn't want to tell your friend her true feelings. I do that, every girl does that! We're not telling people about how we truly feel about you, because we're scared of rejection. Myabe she thinks, you're playing a cruel prank, or she scared you only think of HER as a sister or freind. Either way, she's taking the safe way out. Tell her how you feel...don't ask others to ask her. goood luck!!
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (18 November 2006):
 Yeah you still stand a chance...
She may have just said that to him because she didn't want to admit how she really felt. You will never know until you approach her.
It sounds like she likes you and it will proabbly be best if you just get your feelings out in the open. That way your friendship can either develope or you can move on... depending on how she realy does feel.
You've got to take teh risk because you never know when she knows how you feel about her she may well start to feel a deeper attraction for you... You just don't know do you?
Let us know what you decide to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2006): Every woman appreciates honesty. My best advice, being a woman my self, is to go to her and express how you feel. Hopefully she will be flatterd and realize you went out on a limb, instead of beating around the bush. Then you will know the truth. It could be possible that she told your co-worker a lie because she's confused on how she feels about you, didn't want any gossip to go around, or a number of other reasons. Like I said, sit down and have a pirvate talk with her. If she doesn't come out with a straight answer, or says she needs more time to think, give her some space. I will warn you, your feelings may be hurt, but it is better to love and be hurt, ratehr than not to love at all.
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