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anonymous
writes:i met a girl 4 months ago at a friends birthday,shes amazingly attractive and fun to be with,after a few dates we started having sex and is really good sex full of passion and shes very open minded,shes 27 im 29.she told me from the start about her job which is working as a P.A for a wealthy businessman who is in his late 50's and married,part of working for him is going away 1-2 times a month for usually a few days where he showers her in gifts and they stay in a hotel and have sexthis was no issue to start with but im falling for her,i spoke to her about it and she said the sex is just him using her for relief and she feels nothing from it,over the xmas period he had his companys party at a local hotel and invited us both,she looked amazing as allways and at the end of the night he said he would call by our room for a drink which he did,he didnt look at me once but soon made a move on her and kept saying its all fun and harmless,they were stripping down so i did the same,they began having sex and she was saying to turn off the light as she knew i wasnt enjoying loads,he said leave it on so she did and sure enough they did it quite wild,i now have that image of her in my head but i also love her what should i do?
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reader, cuty for you  +, writes (4 February 2011):
Well I think your "gf" is kinda cheating on you
Well I mean that I won't do that to my bf. Me and my bf had promised that we are going to get married and that and everything. I can't live without my bf
Well I think you sould get a new gf
A little love from, Cuty~~~~
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (4 February 2011):
Do you really really want to be with someone sooooo cheap!! Sorry, but this thread as really wound me up!
She may be attractive, fun and have a good job but she is seriously lacking class!
I suggest you stay away from her. If she can be so blarza about having sex in front of you with her boss then she obviously has no feelings for you at all.
You will get hurt believe me... so end it now!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 She works as a high class prostitute. You knew this from the start, and if that's not something you can live with, leave. She was up front with this, so it's not something you can be angry with her for. It may help you to know most prostitutes hate their clients and many have coping mechanisms that include imagining killing their clients, cutting off bits etc... She genuinely isn't attracted to him probably. To her it's just her job. But if that's not something you are OK with, then you need to leave since it will make her resent you later on if you force her to choose between you or her job.
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reader, faenon +, writes (4 February 2011):
 You seriously want to be fourth cog in the wheel of a mistress who has no respect for herself and another woman's husband? She is admitting to being used as a piece of meat for a 50 year old she isnt a P.A but a cheap hooker with the gifts she gets from him wake up ditch it now can you honestly say your comfortable getting involved with this whore knowing full well she's sleeping with another when she is working?
The 50yo isn't a mans arsewhole since he cant leave his marriage but to feed his false sense of ego he sleeps with a 27yo mistress and you allowed him to sleep with your girl in the hotel room you were staying at? Seriously mate man up grow a pair he would've been thrown out on his arse by any other bloke myself included this girl isnt something special she has ZERO respect for you (obvious by her screwing the 50yo in front of you) and herself she is nothing but a cheaply persuaded whore leave it where it is and find a respectable woman who respect herself as well as her man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is not a great beginning for your relationship. She is honest and that's great but can you handle it? She only had sex with him in front of you? Not good for your self-esteem. If you are not comfortable with this, move on. You will fall in love with someone else who wants the same things you do. This girl is not ready for a committed true relationship. She may never be. You will get hurt in the end big time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): i think, you should break up.. if she is f*cking other men while your in the same room? take a hint man its not worth all the fights and drama later in life..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): I know you love this girl but let her go.She allows herself to be used,probably to stay in his good books & shes getting paid very well to.What does that say about her,she doesnt mind.Does she have no conscience? Either she has a low self esteem & thinks nothing of herself,or you,or she likes doing it.You choose.Either way,its not right.Dont be an idiot & stay with her,shes making you look like an idiot.Do you wanna marry this girl?Is she marriage material?Before you fall hard for this girl & your feelings grow deeper,and its hard to let go,rather leave now.Dont make it harder for yourself,she doesnt feel the same way.
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