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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hi aunties,as a man who likes to see his partner fully enjoy our lovemaking i am sometimes disappointed with my own performance(cum to quick) although she always assures me she is happy.do you think that masturbating causes problems regarding premature ejaculation and that i should stop doing it or that it makes no difference?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): Perhaps she means it. Some girls, unlike those you see in the movies, prefer sex not to last too long.
Does she definitely orgasm? If so, I don't think you need to worry.
PS. Is she noisy during sex? If so, ask her to try to calm that down a touch. The sound of a woman enjoying sex is extremely arousing for a man, and this is a very easy way to increase sexual longevity in some cases.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 From what I've heard, masturbation is supposed to make you last longer... But no worries- premature ejaculation is actually one of the most common male problems out there. there are "exercises" you can do to increase your endurance.Either you or your partner can do these:"Squeeze Technique"Manually or orally stimulate your penis until you are close to ejaculation. Then stop and squeeze the head of your penis (at the level of the frenulum) firmly between your thumb and first two fingers until your urge to come has subsided. You may lose your erection partially, but you should regain it with the resumption of stimulation. Repeat these steps four or five times before ejaculating. You can practice this same technique during intercourse, but some men find it harder to maintain control."Stop-Start Technique"Manually or orally stimulate your penis. When you get close to ejaculation, stop all contact with your penis until your urge to come has passed. Then resume. Repeat 4 or 5 times before allowing ejaculation.If at first you dont succeed, try, try again! If you only make it to two "squeezes" or "stops", then that's okay. Shoot for 3 next time. Build up to 4 or 5. It's just like exercise! :)Good luck! :)
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