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writes:I was recently with a girl. It took me a lot to get her, she has committment problems because of a past relationship. She tends to push people that make her happy away, like me. All was going well until she ignored me for a week. When she did talk to me she said she can't do the whole boyfriend thing, but still wants to talk and hang out and still likes me. I freaked out and said i couldn't do it. For the last 2 weeks i've tried to get it back. She is willing to try but said she doesn't want to lead me on and that she doesn't want anything. All her friends tell me to ignore her and that she will come back but i have a lot of trouble doing that because i feel like i am going to lose her. How can i convince her that i'm worth it, how do i get her back? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 October 2011):
 What do you have to lose? you don't have her.. you can't lose what you don't have...
You can't make someone feel something they don't feel...
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (18 October 2011):
 Hi,
No, you are going to have to let this girl go. You do not want to hang out and do all the stuff as a friend. You want the whole bf/gf situation. She doesn't want this so you need to accept it and stop contacting her. All the ignoring or going quiet is her way of trying to distance herself from any possible leading you on or relationship talk.
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reader, N91 +, writes (18 October 2011):
 You can't, simple as that. She has told you she doesn't want a boyfriend - I've been told this one in the past and it usually translates to 'I don't want YOU as a boyfriend' - There's obviously not enough chemistry there for her to change her mind.
Give this one up man, move on.
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