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She says she loves me too but she has a boyfriend!

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Question - (18 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *MimiGrlX writes:

I'm in love with this girl named Mari. We've been friends for a while, and then we started having feelings for one another. She says that she's in love with me, too. The problem is, she has a boyfriend, and she loves him too. They've been together for three months. She can't decide who she wants to be with. I don't know if it's just because I've never been in this kind of situation before or what, but I can't take this anymore. I love her more than anything else in the world, and it breaks my heart to see them together. I want to be with her, but is this worth waiting for? Or should I just get out now? I still want to be friends with her if that's all that we can be, but it'll be hard for me to just go back to normal if I still have feelings for her. I've never felt this way about anyone else. I'm so lost right now. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntDo you want a sexual relationship with this woman? Have you ever been in a sexual relationship before with a woman? IS she bi?

Eve

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A female reader, bby lolly United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2007):

bby lolly agony aunti think you should just leave it a while let her decide who she wants.

be as nice as you can to her and make her see its you she should choose.

good luck at let me know how it goes xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007):

it sounds to me like shes very confused! if i were you id give her an ultimatum and see what her answer is, that way she's not leading either of you on, its not fair on you or her boyfriend!!

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