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writes:ok 2 1/2 months ago my gf and i called it quits after 7 years and two kids, we both did a lot of hurtful things to each other verbally and some physically and she said she finally couldnt take it anymore so were done, the thing is i still care for her especially since we have two kids together and i think she still cares for me because when i visited the kids a few times during the first month and a half she would smile and say i look good and you could see it in her eyes we even had sex but now she says she has found someone else and is moving forward with her life i just want to know if i should also move on or keep telling her how i feel even though she says shes happy with her relationship thats been goin on just a couple of weeeks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers moving on is what i know i need to do illl be alot happier in the end just better gettin advice from others that reinforces that, right now i hate the loneliness but in time i will find someone
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (28 December 2009):
 It sounds like you've been dumped. Sticking with her solely for the kids is crazy.
If the two of you aren't in this together and can't work your differences out, then you're probably better apart. Be civil to each other for the kids. But you should be out there putting your life back together and moving on.
Hanging on to your feelings for her is one thing. Telling her over and over again how you feel just repulses her and so forth.
It works great if you want to chase them away from you though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont know why i would take her back exactly guess its the love i have for her because of my children i loved them having both parents around but its for the wrong reasons i know
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe has told me i dont know why your worrying about him so much were just talking right now and who knows if it will last, well the other night she called me cryin sayin he hasnt called her and wont answer her texts but later on he did call her but i guess he was mad at her, i guess im sayin why is she calling and telling me this stuff, she also asked me if its alright that shes seeing this guy she didnt want me to be mad about it, finally today i told her im not goin to deal with this anymore in mind its over so please dont call me when things go bad ill call and talk to the kids thats it dont want to know her problems.i just dont want to be the fallback plan if thats what she is doin i told her if hse has feelings figure it out now or forget about it all
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reader, pril +, writes (27 December 2009):
Wow that's a hard one. It sounds like she wants u when its right for her or when she is lonely. But now she has found some one else. She doesn't want u. I no girls like that. It will drive u crazy. Try and move on if u can. I no it hurts right now but with time it will get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): update she has told me that" dont worry too much about the new guy were just talking right now and who knows whats goin to happen just takin things slow"
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