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writes: Hi there, my gf has left me 3 weeks ago. It's a bit complicated, but basically she has mild depression and thinks very lowly of herself. I love her to bits. The problem being she wants a child and I can't give her one. I am 39 she is 33. She said to me when she left she loves me with all her heart, but can't be with me now. She needs to go away and sort herself out and then and only then might return and sweep me off my feet. She has this overwheming urge for a baby. All I would like to know, could this urge die down and her love for me be too strong or shall I just give up and move on? I am heart broken as she has said to me we are soul mates. All I am doing now is giving her space. I have read that a woman can have this overwhelming urge to have a child when they are in love, so I am hoping that when and if she does not fall in love again, the way she did with me she will come back. any advice would be much appreciated..ps. do you do a telephone help line service.henry
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
You dont say why you couldnt give her a baby, if you are able to have, but dont want to have children, then you have to accept that you and your girlfriends goals in life are different and decide what to do about it.If you are medically unable to have children I suggest you take a visit to your doctor, theres a lot of new treatments out there for infertility and low sperm count and he will be able to advise you.Remember also that there are other options such as adoption or fostering.
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling so bad, and that you care so much about your girlfriend.
I don't think that the urge for a baby will die down. I think you need to decide wether you want a child in your life, because there is more than one way to have a baby - sperm donation, ivf and even adoption.
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