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writes: i am a 31 year old Pisces who has never had a real relationship with a man. I have had 'boyfriends' but none of them even becomes close to being "the one". I met JB (currently a 33 year old Aquarius) when i was 16 and we became the best of friends. We were always hanging out together and somewhere along the way i realised i loved him. He is my soulmate. No one compares to him. He has been married to his wife for the past 10 years and they have 2 children. Throughout our journey to adulthood and even now we have never let our friendship die. I should note here that i have never spoken to his wife but we know each other and she knows she cannot come between the "bond" JB and I share. I loved him still and i cannot see myself growing old with anyone else. I am never lonely but I have always believed that true love will find a way. JB and I have basically the same circle of friends and they always thought that we were meant to be. His wife is not apart of this circle unless it expands on rare occassions to include family. During the past 3 years our times together became less frequent due to our hectic career schedules. Last year June his best 'male' friend were talking and he told me that JB has always liked me more than friends but never thought he was suitable for me financially and believed that my family would disapprove. Well i took this news as any friend would, i locked it in my heart and never said anything to JB. About 4 months ago we started seeing each other and one night he stayed by my house and we sat from around midnight to noon talking about 'us'. Everything he wanted to tell me and needed to say for the past 15 years came rushing out. I sat there dumbfounded listening to him. We have resolved to let whatever happens, happen. We would never hurt each other and at present we have only just began to kiss and hold hands. I feel like all my dreams are coming true but yet i know that morally this goes against what i believe. I just want some comments on this situation.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
JB is married, you should leave him alone unless he is prepared to leave his wife for you.
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