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writes:hey every1 . thnx for ur time in order to help me here . i posted like 3 days ago that my ldr gf broke up with me , coz she just felt like she doesnt need a bf anymore coz she has to focus on her career , anyway yesterday we spoke again and we had this huge argument again that she doesnt want me anymore , i asked her to take her time in order to think abt us ,lol she took like couple of hours before she says that she thought about it and she doesnt wanna give our relationship a second chance , so i gave up and told her that yes i will leave her alone coz thats what she wants . anyawy i woke up this morning and found a txt on my fone from her sayin ** I love you xxx ** i didnt know hw to react to this message . what does it even mean . she was so bitchy with me last night , and now she loves me again !! i dont know how to answer that txt . shall i jst ignore it untill she tries to contact me again or should i reply bk , even though i still love her so much ,any advice would be helpful , thnx a lot
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Perhaps the other guy didnt work out and so she is calling on her backstop .... that's you btw.
Let it go, dont answer and look for a nice girl closer to home!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguys , im really confused!! my ldr gf spoke to me again on msn . begging me to get bk with me , she said the text it was for me but after she sent it she felt that she will make it harder for both of us thats why she said it wasnt for me!!!
she said she wasnt thinkin when she broke up with me , she was fed up of everything and it was worse with me coz she loves me more !!
i dont know how does that sound but i dk if i should really take her bk . i am inlove with her , i know that!! but i dont know !
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Believe me You are better of being single and miserable than being with someone and miserable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguys , i have some good news !! she came online now tellin me that she made a mistake lol she sent it to the wrong person which is me !!!!!!!!!!! f***** unbelievable ....i never f***thought she would be like this !!! omg shes definitly not the person i thought she was oh my god , i must be dreamin !!! shes tellin some1 else she loves him after 2 fuckin yrs tellin me how crazy she is abt me and she even wanted to marry me . and we even had names of our kids !!!!!1 oh my god !!! oh my god
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2010):
She doesn't love you. She dumped you, strung you along, was bitchy with you, and the moment you ended contact she sent you that text to play games. Don't waste your time on her. Better women out there! You don't want to wind up being her doormat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits really hard for me to just ignore her or move on , i mean i do really love her , she means the world to me
what if she really loves me though ! maybe now she realise that she is inlove with me and cant be without me ,
im saying this coz i cant imagine her playin games like this with me . when she really doesnt want something then she really mean it , no going back , but i guess now shes not sure, omg i cant think anymore . this is messin with my head really
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reader, petina1 +, writes (20 October 2010):
 She is treating you like a puppet, cut the strings and delete her number. No good will come of it. I totally agree with Aunty BimBim. Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2010):
She's playing games with you. Some people do this for an ego boost. That's what she's doing. Ignore her, or you'll wind up being a doormat or something.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (20 October 2010):
Ignore her, she is playing games with your head, and who needs that, especially first thing in the morning.
She may have another boyfriend but be keeping you as a backstop in case that one doesnt work out ... or she simply might have decided she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you
either way, ingore her texts and calls, wait for the dust to settle and then move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): i think its a case of she dont want you and when you want her she wants you back.. it's a silly game and i wish it was never played.. but i guess she dus love you.. i think just give her some space n time to miss you.. but im no expert i always mess this kinda stuff up lol so dont listen to me :P
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