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*andosxc123
writes:Well, I've liked this girl for a few months now and we've become good friends. She's always acted awkwardly around me in person but she's always talkative and social when I text her or we talk on msn. Recently I told her my feelings and she said that she only saw me as a friend. I was really cut and didn't talk to her for a few days until she asked if I was alright. I want to get over her, seeing as I'll probably never be with her but I still want to be friends with her, if I can't have anything else. I've tried to stop thinking about her and get her out of my head but I haven't had any luck, I still really, really like her... What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Maybe the best thing for your situation is to try talking to someone new to get her out of your system.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 Ha, welcome to myworld. though i haven't told her yet.well i'm not gonna sugar coat it for you.in blunt terms.#1 : tough titties and sucks for you. - enjoy her company as a friend.#2 : try doing some romantic shit. you want her? then get off your fat ass and prove to her that you're worthy of being her bf and going out with her. you want it? fight for it... just don't get all stalker like.
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (12 July 2009):
 I feel your pain mate. Its a tricky one I have been in the situation myself. Its a skill you learn to control your feelings for people and change them. Its probably the most difficult skill and some people argue you cant help who you fall for. I imagine you as some one who has a strong fear of approaching girls and tend to only open up to the people you know. You're sensitive and thoughtful but don't understand why girls tend not to see it. You have a had a few instances where girls have slipped into the friend zone and fear that every girl u meet thru-out life will fall into the same zone. I'm just guessing and may be wrong but i would recommend you take steps to make sure you don't let this happen again. Search Mystery on youtube and ross jeffries and watch some of the things they talk about. this will help you get over her and learn new ways of thinking.
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