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writes:Hello Everyone.I'm really confused and hurt over a situation that has literally taken over the past 5 years of my life. In a way I feel angry, because this has taken over and I'm afraid I'll wake up some day and realize that my young life has passed me by..Here's the story - I'm a 22 year old female in complete and total love with a 35 year old female. We are friends, and are very similar in alot of ways, and so I guess that's why we hit it off instantly.The problem isn't the fact that I might be gay, I don't care. I just want her. I've never told her how I feel, and she has never said anything to me, but I get a certain feeling that she is aware of how I feel for her. I can't hide it!The thing is I can't be sure if she reciprocates my feelings... Am I just seeing things that I want to see? When she speaks to me she holds eye contact, her hugs are long, and the way she can make me feel so special. Should I be courageous and just spill it out, or by doing so will I ruin a great friendship?Please advise me anybody. I'm so lost, and so lonely.Thank you xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Hopeless Happiness. +, writes (12 July 2009):
I think you should talk to her. Just ask her if she's feeling anything more than friendship. Let her know that you don't wanna lose the friendship by making it more but you're feeling something a bit stronger.
See how she responds. It's a difficult situation, but not impossible. Maybe see how things go and if anything happens first.
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Hmm if you are really in love with her first you need to find out if she is straight or not. If she is straight then im afraid she wants the men but not the women. If she is gay or bi then just ask her over one night. Make some flirty moves. If she is a bit creeped out then leave it. If she flirts back you may be able to finally express your love for her. Theres no right way to say things just now as I dont know if she is gay or not.
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