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writes:I dont know what to think of this girl! WE are both 16. Whenever i talk to her or am around her she is an angel, but her actions are another story. Most of the time, when we have plans, she cancels at the very last second. I have asked her out and she rejected me. She said she just needed more time after her last boyfriend. She made is very clear that "she wasnt saying no, just not right now". She said that i should not give up on a relationship and she really really wants to become good friends. I think she is a devil in disguise and just likes the fact that i want her. I think she likes that a guy is chasing her, and does not like me at all. But she swears that is not true. What should i do? any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): I think you should ease off and think of her as a lost cause. Aren't there better things to do at 16-17 than chasing after girls with motives for playing immature games with someone's heart? Even if she wasn't, at least have some dignity in yourself and back off - give her some room to do what she needs to do. Being at her beck and call, being around her so much, giving her the feeling that you're always there can possibly make her feel that you are either A) too needy, and/or B) too easy.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (30 April 2007):
 She could be telling you the truth that it is too soon after her last guy. Since she likes the "chasing game" so much, why don't you just ignore her for a little while? She might start chasing you for a change. If not, then she might have just been playing with your feelings and making you out like a fool.
Just wait and see what happens....I hope that you get the results in your favor!
Good luck nd God Bless!!
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (30 April 2007):
She could be telling you the truth that it is too soon after her last guy. Since she likes the "chasing game" so much, why don't you just ignore her for a little while? She might start chasing you for a change. If not, then she might have just been playing with your feelings and making you out like a fool.
Just wait and see what happens....I hope that you get the results in your favor!
Good luck nd God Bless!!
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reader, llusting4him  +, writes (30 April 2007):
i think this girl is enjoying the way your making her feel like shes your everything you shoud slow down and not chase her so much let her see what its like to chase after you if she doesn't chase you then it gives you a chance to think over your feelings for her if she means it when she says not right now she will come to you she might also appreciate you giving her time to heel and come to terms with her break up
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