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writes:my best friend is a girl and we get on really weel. we havent seen each other for about 2 weeks, so when we met last night it was amazin. we went to a party and she wanted me to walk her home when we got to her house we kissed and it felt so right. i have asked her out before and she says she dosent want to lose a friend ive told her she can never lose me but still she dnt seen to try, she makes me so confused by kissing me this is the 3rd time it has happened i really want to be with her but i dnt no what to do can anyone give me advice ?
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reader, Love Doctor +, writes (16 April 2007):
 This has happened to me, I did accept the guy's offer and i became his g/f...but sadly it didn't last long and i lost his friendship in the process...
i know it may be hard but you have to get over it and move on, she doesn't wanna lose u as a friend...
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reader, penta  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 I did this to a guy once, a long time ago. He liked me so much and he was such a great guy that I really wanted to see fireworks. So I started acting like a girlfriend for a week. It didn't work; there never were any fireworks. And I hurt him terribly leading him on.
If she says she just wants to be friends, believe her. Don't pursue a relationship any further. Distance yourself if you have to, but don't continue. You'll be better off, believe me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): i am in the exact position as you. as mitch says try and move on i know its hard to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): Maybe she does have feelings for you but is too scared to have a relationship with you just in case you two break up and the friendship gets lost. It's happened in many cases before and she's scared that it's going to happen with you and her. Tell her how you feel about her and she might reciprocate those feelings but at the end of the day you can't force her into a relationship with you and mess around with her feelings no matter how much you want to be with her. If she wants to have a go at things you'll know.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 April 2007):
 You can have all the honourable intentions in the world about remaining friends after a break up but it's not that easy. I know that you just read that sentence and thought "Yeah but I'm different" but the truth is that breaking up with someone who is a friend sucks more than you could even imagine. She probably is just more aware of this fact than you. If you're meant to be itll happen and if not it'll just be another case of unrequited love which we all have to go through at one time or another.
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