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I want to feel good about myself around him but I really feel like a failure. Any advice?

Q.   I'm a gay man and I've been seeing a guy now since mid November last year. He's good looking, works as a fitness instructor and is very trustworthy. He's honest about his feelings and emotions and I initially found this difficult, but I'm getting ...

A.   27 April 2007: Hmmm tricky one. It sounds more like a, 'I want to BE him' Rather than a, 'I want to BE WITH him' Relationship. My advice is to have some, [[Cliché here]] 'You' Time. Maybe shape up abit, buy some new clothes or get a haircut. Next time y... (read in full...)

My jealousy is getting out of control and I dont know how to handle it!!

Q.   im in a year long relationship and over time i have become more and more paranoid that my girlfriend is going to cheat one me. recently shes been goin to pubs and clubs etc with her friends and it makes me feel sick knowing that some guy could be ...

A.   27 April 2007: The answer? Moan to a friend. Its what i do! Why complain to her and risk a good relationship when you could complain to a GOOD friend who can drop subtle hints? Try it. =]... (read in full...)

What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?

Q.   For the past year i have been in love with my cousin's ex-husband. He loves me too but there is a 10 year age gap and i'm underage. What can we do to stay secret and to make it work?...

A.   27 April 2007: Secret? No offence but get real, whenever has 'secret' worked? NEVER! There is alot of other guys out there, you dont need to get involved in this kinda relationship.... (read in full...)

She keeps pushing me away!

Q.   She keeps pushing me away.... My girlfriend and I got into a fight again.....It started on Tuesday when my father made some harsh remarks about the 2 of us to me, while my g.f. was not around. It really upset me and I decided to tell her. Als...

A.   27 April 2007: The best thing to do is talk to her. Get your feelings out on the table, maybe even cry a little. As silly as it sounds, girls love seeing guys venerable. Just explain in detail how you feel about everything, ask her why she is this way and why... (read in full...)

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