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writes: I'm 16. Like this girl, asked her out to watch a movie, she accepted but keeps changing the day. What should I do? I really really like her, I'm crazy over her but if she makes another excuse I want to say something to make her feel bad. Any ideas? She knows I like her, but she keeps destroying me by leading me on! She asks me if i still want to go etc. It's impossible to move on. If she don't to go than leave me alone but she wont. She texts me, than I reply back and think she likes me but she than ignores me. In other words she treats me like crap!
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Ask her to set a date and if she breaks it off again then say to her let's not bother. She may just be nervous about it, but then she could just be trying to get out of going.
Give her one more chance then stop talking to her. If she texts you ignore her. Move on and find somebody else who wont string you along and who will enjoy going to the cinema with you!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 June 2007):
 She is playing you and you should not stand for it, you should not contact her and if she contacts you reject the number or ignore the text.
There are plenty of girls out there that are not interested in playing games with men, i would concentrate on finding one of them.
Let her go and play her games with someone thats happy to join in.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Dr. Surgel  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 You do have to drop this girl and move on.Imagine how much better you are going to feel when you have totally stopped calling her and texting her, and a few days or weeks or months later she contacts you and says "Hi!". Don't respond when she contacts you.If you absolutely must, you can do the same thing to her that she has been doing to you, but I wouldn't get any more involved with her if I were you. She's just playing with you, and seeing how far she can take it, and she could even start to get nasty. You really can't win here, so you have to just not contact her at all - no accidental calls, don't cheat yourself, and if she contacts you, wait a long time before you call her back, like days, not just hours. You're better off without her in your phone book,cheersDr. Surgel
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reader, reatachi  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 My first bit of advice: don't try to make her feel bad. It could backfire, and then the situation would be even harder on you.Maybe she's nervous, or uncertain? Try to make her feel comfortable around you, talk about things she likes, be a gentleman, make her laugh. If her problem is nerves, making her feel comfortable should help a LOT. To me, that's what it looks like =]However, she could be playing games. If the above doesn't work, maybe ask her about it? Casually bring it up during conversation, you never know, she might come around!Best of Luck!
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (28 June 2007):
Hi! "Being treated like Crap" You're the Lollipopman, A sucker, You know what you should be doing, But I'm not sure you got the balls to kiss her off. Here's a part of a song, "And I just keep coming back for more." Guess they wrote those words just for You.
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