A
male
age
36-40,
*eoman
writes:ok my situation is thisi am with a girl i love dearly and she loves me. I am 24 and she is 19, she is about to move from where we have lived with my dad for 8 months to university. I am willing to move with her and get a place with her but she says she isn't ready for that. We have been so close for the last 8 months and there is so much love between u sthat i think it will be so hard having the long distance relationship and just want to make her see that she is ready, but i guess that's impossible..i know she's 19I know she loves me and I love her and the love is strong enough to make the long distance last but it will be so hard and all i want to hear is that she's ready. Also I'm not exactly sure what "ready" means, she wants to have to children with me and marry me further on, but isn't ready now, does anyone know what "ready" means in this case ??thankyou
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 quite simply she thinks you two are moving too fast. she wants to slow things down by distancing herself a little bit.
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