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writes: i had a good relationship from the onset. but i couldn't understand her anylonger, after which she asked me that she's not confortable with the relationship any longer.but the way i reacted by sheding tears in front of her, cos i was heartbroken by the words. eventually she told me she was joking that she did it intentionally. since then she tries to do whatever she wishes and act anyway cos she feels i love her. today she came to my house and under 10 mins she insisted she's going home without any just cause. and i love this girl more than anything. so what i'm i going to do?
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (25 November 2005):
She isnt worth your time! get rid of her or put your foot down, you need to be strong, i know its hard because you love her but you will push her away even more if you run after her, let her do the running. Go out with your friends now and again and if she phones you to meet up with you be strong and tell her that you have other plans. Its time for the tables to turn otherwise you will be going on like this forever. Tell her your not going to have it anymore and please for god sake put your foot down and be a man, i know its hard but we have all been through it. Be firm with her, tell her how you feel. Be tough. She has no right to treat you like this just because you she knows you love her for christ sake. Tell her you do love her but your not prepared to be treated like shit just because she thinks you will let her get away with it. Believe me, if you go out with your friends and pretend that your not bothered with her as much anymore she will be all over you like a dog on heat! believe me it works. All it takes is for you to be strong. I know its hard and that everyone has probably told you the same thing but please listen to my words, i wish i had been stronger in my first relationship because he treated me exactly the same as she is treating you, because he knew that i was madly in love with him. Dont let it happen to you, put your foot down now. Its time for the tables to turn!! and stop being so soft x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): Sorry you are hurting, but this girl is using you like a cat plays with a mouse before it kills the mouse. No one who respects you would do what she is doing to you. No one who loves you would do what she is doing to you. Get away from her. You are still in love with the girl she was, not the woman she is now. Yes, you will hurt for some time, but you will survive. Find another girl who does respect you, and will love you for who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): Its obvious that u love the girl so much and she is fully aware. am afraid she is the sort of person to me that is taking advantage of that because she knows u will always forgive her no matter what. am not saying she is bad no, just saying u need to cut down the affection with her.i agree u should show her love but not too much. dont let her see your tears. dont over-show her u cant do without her. u r trying too much and she isnt the type that appreciates that. relax and enjoy your relationship and be natural. u r a sweet guy and anyone would be happy if someone was showing me that sort of emotion but u muct realise that not everyone is the same.
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