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writes:She`s admitted looking through my phone,accused me of hiding things in it,accused me of looking through her phone. I am baffled to what is going on. Why would someone class her phone as privacy then look through mine? Am i being petty here or am i on to something? Everything she has is her own privacy,yet I`m always being accused of hiding things from her. I have 3 times come accross her profiles on date,text and flirting sites.Have i got the right to believe she isnt playing the game by the rules? It seems she accuses me of everything she has done herself. She has been unreasonably jealous since our relationship started over 3 years ago. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): when it comes to love, everyone is not sure about anything. usually, in a situation like yours, the best thing to do is share each others feelings. tell each other how you feel and address other issues in your lives that cause you to be suspicious about one another. its that simple. the hard part is deciding who would be the bigger person to take the first step... Good Luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Usually, when a woman has an unreasonable jealousy,like this, I would guess someone or something has made her this way. You two have a huge trust issue in your relationship and if it isn't rectified, your relationship will eventually blow up in your faces. I am seeing two adult people here, behaving badly, each accusing the other of betrayal. secrecy, doubts and privacy invasion. and forgetting what brought them together in the first place. One of you started this by betraying the other and further feelings of mistrust, have developed over time and grew from that. When it happened and why it happened..only you both know. For you to be on dating sites and finding her profiles tells me you were likely confirming your suspicions about her, by checking sites. She checked your phone because she is suspicious of you. I think both of you should cop some responsibility here and apologize to each other and begin anew by vowing not to behave this badly to each other...or just end this toxic, relationship. It's a tough choice and you both need to discuss whether you want a healthy relationship or an unhealthy one. The choice is up to both of you. Good luck and take care, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): she accuses you because she wants to escape answering any questions.
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reader, ladylove72 +, writes (5 March 2007):
She hides everything she`s doing because she shouldnt be doing them. If i wuz you i would demand to see in her phone because she is a sneaky one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): as heather said what are you doing on chat, flirt sites seems you are the one hiding things, yet you are accusing her of things that you yourself are doing.
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (4 March 2007):
 What are you doing on Date, Text & Flirting Sites to have come across her profile?
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (4 March 2007):
 It sounds to me as if she is the one hiding something. So she feels guilty over something and is trying to make it look like you are the one hiding something. These are classic signs that she's up to something.
She hides all her personal things, yet seems to want to expose yours.
I would get to the bottom of this because something smells very fishy to me.
Good luck
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