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writes: Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It also seems to depress her because she's even mentioned that it may be better for me to 4get about her because she doesn't want to complicate my life.How do i help her think positively about it? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (30 October 2007):
EXCUSE MY IMPERFECTION!!! Between the computer acting up and my spelling maybe one can understand what I mean. Thank God he isn't thru with me yet!SMILES! and *LOL*
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (29 October 2007):
Most people do not know that there are many types of anemia. First of all you need to know what the type is. Anemia is a medical condition in which you may supper from fatigue, dimished physical and mental capcity unrelieved by rest. It affects the red blood cells of the body which carry the oxygen to the brain and other organs/cells.
There are many causes for anemia. They include poor diet , intestional disorders, menstruation, pregnancy, chornic conditions and family history. They can also include exosure to tox9c chemicals, certain infections, blood diseases, iron anemia, vitamin defieceny. Along with anemia from chronis sidese, aplastic anemia, hemolystic sickle cell and others. Even one type is due to bone marrow problems. Check with the doc and find out what kind it is.
Last but not least if it is only a simple form. Not to worry! Women are given prenatal vitamins and are watched carefully througout the entire pregnancy. Address any concerns with your gynocologist.
God bless you both and I pray that your life will be blessed with a precious little Angel in time.
Godspeed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): My God this women is making a mountain out of a mole hill!
There is no reason at all why anaemia should have affect her ability to have children. I have 2 children I am normally anaemic but throughout my pregnancies had an extreemly low RBC, the only way this effected me was that sometimes I was exhausted. Ususally the doctor will give you iron tablets of some sort to assist the reproduction of red blood cells and reccommend that you have a larger intake of red meat.
You need to reassure her that she is and will be fine. To read up on it so that she over reacts a little less. I would also blame the doctors for her not being educated on the meaning of anaemia.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): When I was first pregnant I was given a blood test and it confirmed that i was very anaemic .So the doctor prescribed 3 iron tablets a day and I had no problems during my pregnancy, birth and the baby was very healthy. It is treatable.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (29 October 2007):
Hi,
I had Anaemia while pregnant it can cause you to feel a little tired etc but it did not cause any problems with pregnancy i had to take iron tablets for the whole of my pregnancy and a while after but everything was fine.
Try looking things up on the internet with her & reasure her that your there for long term & it does not mean the end of your relationship there are plenty of ways to control it.
Good luck with everything
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Don't worry, anaemia will not cause her any problems with having children! It can sometimes be easily fixed with diet, eating red meat will help, but it depends on what type of anaemia she has. She may been iron or vitamin B supplements.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (29 October 2007):
Anaemia is when there is a lack of red blood cells in the body which can cause unusual tiredness. It can be due to bad diet with little iron and can be remedied by upping their iron intake, taking in more vitamin B12 and folic acid. Anaemia is very common in women and can be easily remedied. It shouldn't affect her capability to have children as long as she continues to eat sensibly and have checks (once pregnant) with her local GP. Have a look at the link below which should be of some help to you.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/anaemiairon.htm
Eve
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