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writes:How do you fall out of love with someone that has a boyfriend and you see everyday?I teach a class at the gym and go almost everyday, and for the last 4months there has been a very attractive girl going, i worked up a conversation with her and we hit things off, i got her number and we began hanging out. and it just so happens that she lives in the apartment above me in my complex that i just moved into, so now we run into each other everyday. A week into it she slept over and things happened, we continued to hang out almost everyday and go to the gym together, and without knowing it would happen so fast i began falling for her, she is everything im looking for in a girl and i was so happy that she seemed to be into me.Then I get a txt one morning saying she cant see me anymore and that shes sorry that she wasnt honest from the start and that shes been seeing another guy for a while, but she isnt happy. Shes told me countless of times that she isnt happy with him and always thinks about me too, but ive been in this situation and i dont want to get my hopes up so im just staying as her friend, hanging out from time to time and not getting involved with her, but im still in love with her.How do you fall out of love with someone who has a boyfriend and most likely wont leave him, and someone who you see nearly everyday?! It hurts to see her drive off to go spend the night at her boyfriends.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 December 2009):
I'm really sorry about what happened. She used you as a quick fix to her problems and it hasn't worked. All you can do is work to get over her by making sure you're meeting other people, spending time on yourself and meeting up with friends and just having a good time. If there's any way for you to move shifts to get away from her, that might be a good idea. Clearly though, don't have anything to do with her while she's with that guy. You don't want to be used again.
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