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writes: been with my girl for 6 months..love her, trust her, ect..about 3 weeks ago she bought a box of condoms b/c we both decided we should start using them b/c of the possibilty of getting pregnant. I have been sick for the past 2 weeks and have not been to her house..i went there today for the first time and one of the condoms was missing..i asked her about it and she said i was being crazy..now i know me and her did not use it?? but i just can't remember fully if we opened one by accident a few weeks back?? i know for sure we did not use it though..i don't want to accuse her and she swears up and down that she has no clue?/ what should i think
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Now you blew your cue to catch her cheating, so you're going to have a hard time catching her doing something suspicious if she's involved in something suspicious.
Just check the pillows for hair strains, in the bed, in the shower, on shower towels, on the soap, hair strings near the toilet.
Most likely women who mess around don't mess around with guys who have the same texture of hair follicles as there boyfriends.
If you catch her cheating, leave her immediately!
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reader, lahainaKat  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 You provably open it by accident...just like you first thought you did. But.... I believe that "People Hang Themselves" so if she is lying to you this time it will happen again, so just play it kool and if it happens again then you will know the answer....Aloha Kat
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (12 February 2007):
 If it's her first time using this particular brand, or condoms in general, or even if she's never had sex...Maybe she wanted to check it out. Heck, my boyfriend and I bought a three pack to inspect months before the act! I made him practice because I wanted to be protected and for it to be used correctly. I just wanted to see what the heck it looked and felt like, what kind of lubricant it was, the texture, the size and shape, and what the heck is that little thingy on the end for, what does it taste like (lubed or un, it's yucky. Ew!), and if you fill it with water, rub cooking oil on it and put it in the bathtub, will it pop (yes!!).
It was useful to see. Perhaps she was just embarassed to tell you she was looking at it for these reasons. Just a though! :)
Mucho love! -Carrie
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I don't think I would be too quick to judge.
Any number of things could have happened to it.
Too many times I have heard of someone accusing another of something only to find out that what actually happened was not at all what was thought happened.
By then the damage is done.
Just put it on the back burner and if nothing else happens to cause doubt, then forget it. Doc.
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Are you ready to start mistrusting your girlfriend when you can't even remember if you two opened a condom together or not? ....Sounds like you two haven't used condoms before...check the fridge for a cucumber with a raincoat.
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reader, salsere  +, writes (12 February 2007):
you said you trust your girlfriend in the first line of your sentence, so therefore you should trust what she is telling you.
Dont jump the gun and think the worse, you have asked her and she has told you, getting yourself worked up about it may cause you to think the worse. anything could have happened to that condom the main thing is you have asked her out right whether or not she has used it, you now have to trust your girlfriends and give her the benefit of the doubt. dont let it effect you and ruin your relationship forget about it and move on
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 If you opened one a few weeks ago you would have had to throw it away since there was a risk of something puncturing it in the meantime. Maybe your girlfriend is carrying one in her wallet or just opened one to experiment with it in some way or gave one to a friend. Maybe even a sibling or parents borrowed one from the box. I think it'd be wrong to disbelieve your girlfriend about this. Believe her until you have reason not to.
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