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writes:My girlfriend and I have being going out for 4 months now in the beginning it was crazy love now she treats me like Im just a normal friend I have been so nice to her and now when Im seriously depressed she dosent even comfort me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Hi Hun,
Im sorry to hear your g/f broke up with you, I can understand now as to why maybe you were feeling depressed. I no you are heartbroken at this moment in time and nothing I can say is going to change that, If you do suffer with depression on a regular basis I do think it wise to get some help though love.. And if you are feeling down and just need someone to talk to please mess me anytime ok, I do hope you feel better soon LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Paul21389 +, writes (23 September 2007):
Paul21389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has since broken up with me and i am heartbroken...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Hi Love,
Have you asked yourself the question why your so depressed? could it have anything to do with needing the attention you had with your g/f at the beginning.
It sounds to me as if she is comfortable with you in this relationship and its good that you have a friendship, Is there a pattern to your depression. What im trying to say has this happened before, you said you have been so nice to her and she wont comfort you, she can only do so much hunny she cant make you better that has to come from you and her way of behaving is probably trying to cheer you up the only way she knows...
This also sounds as if there is a deep insecurity within love that maybe you have yet to deal with, I would go and see someone if you havent already and find out the root of this depression, or you are just going to sit and think more and more about how she is not doing what you feel she should and get more depressed, start the ball rolling love and im sure you can beat this. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (17 September 2007):
 Well maybe now she's safe with you and feels no need to show you her love.Most of the times I have an idea that people who are close to me and who I love can realize when I feel like crap-but unfortunately they can't.In kind of moments when I want to die they ask me something like "have you slept well last night,you seem a bit tired" lol.My advice is to try talking to her about how you feel and find out is she insensitive or just not aware of what goes inside of your head.
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