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writes:My boyfriend just got grounded for a couple of weeks and hes not allowed to call me but a couple of days ago we had sex and I might be pregnant hes worried over this severly but I dont know if I am or not and when I do find out I have no way of telling him and hes the one majorly freaking out about it and now I have no way of comforting him but moslty how do I cope without him these next couple of weeks I can hardly go a couple hours without talking to him!
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reader, Clare75  +, writes (18 September 2007):
Do you know anyone who goes to same school as him? 2 weeks really isnt a long time, go out with your friends and enjoy yourself. Time will soon fly by. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok im not pregnant but i still have no way of contacting him we live miles away from each other hes not allowed to call or talk to anyone we go to diffrant schools and i cant mail him...so ya more or less how do i comfort him when i do see him and really how do i cope?
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reader, penta +, writes (17 September 2007):
 First, find out whether you actually are pregnant. Get a pregnancy test, go to a clinic, see a doctor, something. Be positive about your status. When you know for sure you'll be able to include him in your plans.Second, do you see him at school? Does the grounding include all calls or just from you? Can you pass a sealed note through one of his friends? Say something cryptic, like: that thing we were worried about isn't a problem. Good luck hon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): Your biggest worry should not be whether you can cope without him, it should be whther or not you're CARRYING A CHILD!!!!! You can't just brush that to the side because it isn't going to go away.
You were very foolish not to use protection and now you've gotten yourself into a situation where two very immature people a in way too deep. Talk to someone about it immediately. And use a condom next time to save you from all this worry! I hope you've learnt your lesson from this because clearly your boyfriend's parents are still in control of him so there's no possible way that he (and quite possibly you) are ready to be parents yourself.
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reader, lil_mizz_biatch666 +, writes (17 September 2007):
awww huni!!
well i ent tryin 2 b funny but take a preggy test!!
find out if u r and if u ent!
and ok so its not that bad, so u cant c him or call him but u can write him ryt?? no1 sed u cnt do him letters?? yeah ok so no 1 dus dat no more but u can try .
or if he can go on his comp email him or sneak in his rooma @ nyt or sumin lol
alwyas wrked 4 me
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reader, lil_mizz_biatch666 +, writes (17 September 2007):
awww huni!!
well i ent tryin 2 b funny but take a preggy test!!
find out if u r and if u ent!
and ok so its not that bad, so u cant c him or call him but u can write him ryt?? no1 sed u cnt do him letters?? yeah ok so no 1 dus dat no more but u can try .
or if he can go on his comp email him or sneak in his rooma @ nyt or sumin lol
alwyas wrked 4 me
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reader, Clare75 +, writes (17 September 2007):
If you think you are pregnant then you should firstly speak to either your parents, older brother or sister or family gp. If you only had sex a couple of days ago then you may still be able to have the morning after pill (this can be used up to 72 hours from when you had unprotected sex.) Failing this, a pregnancy test will not give you accurate results before your period is due so therefor it is likely that you will be able to speak to your boyfriend again before you find out. Is there a mutual friend who can pass a message on to him for you just to let him know that you are thinking of him and not to worry about things? Private message me if you would like to talk further. All the best. xx
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