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writes:When I'm having sex with my girl I love sucking her nipples, but lately she's been saying she doesn't want me to do that to her because I'm acting like a child feeding off of her and she has said that her breasts are sore. Is this normal for a girl. My mate said that girls breasts get sore when they are pregnant so I was wondering what are the chances of her being pregnant, and if so, how do I bring up the subject with her?
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reader, ready to help u  +, writes (10 November 2010):
dude i think u should give her the space.. if she wants she will come to you..!
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reader, mohanmahan +, writes (8 July 2010):
Dear friend, The answer in not singular or universal. Right from a crept-in false belief (like 1. breast is meant for babies AND NOT MEN 2. if sucked, they can loosen out of shape)to a real temporary soreness (like inflammation/ infection) - it can be anything. Instead of your problem of not getting what you want, better try to know what prevents her from giving that.
It may be just a new-found belief (from unauthentic sources like friends or quacks) - just resolve it by counseling. If she has never been co-operative - this can be the sole and strongest reason. OTHERWISE IT CAN BE TOTAL ABSENCE OF EMOTION BETWEEN YOU BOTH - which I hardly hope to be true.
If recently a change of attitude is there - try to find the reason. If you insist more on one side, asymmetric growth of breast might have been a convincing reason for her to deny now onwards - use both sides alternately. It might be pregnancy but that hardly goes unnoticed any longer - this reason would be obvious withing weeks.
Due to deep stress, unknowingly, males grow aggressive and if you have recently increased stress, you might have grown so (hurting her more and more). Strong adult suck on nipples, that too non-lactating, for long, is OK only on professional porn - in reality, it's a very torturing experience.
So 1. look for psychological changes in (a) yourself
(b) her 2. look for infection/ inflammation and manage it with empathy, not just as a disease 3. honor the organ for emotional togetherness - don't abuse it as a hardcore fetish. If you really have bilateral love there is no reason that these measures would fail. BEST OF LUCK.
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reader, mohanmahan +, writes (8 July 2010):
Dear friend, The answer in not singular or universal. Right from a crept-in false belief (like 1. breast is meant for babies 2. if sucked they can be loosen out of shape)to a real temporary soreness ( like inflammation/ infection) - it can be anything. Instead of your problem of not getting what you want, better try to know what prevents her from giving that.
I may be just a new-found belief (from unauthentic sources like friends or quacks) - just resolve it by counseling. If she has never been co-operative - this can bee the sole and strongest reason.
If recently a change of attitude is there - try to find the reason. if you insist more on one side, asymmetric growth of breast might have been a convincing reason for her to deny now onwards - use both sides alternately. It might be pregnancy but that hardly goes unnoticed any longer.
due to deep stress, unknowingly males grow aggressive and if you have recently increased stress, you might have grown so (hurting her more and more). Strong adult suck on nipples, that too non-lactating, for long is OK only on professional porn - in reality, it's very torturing experience.
So 1. look for psychological changes in (a) yourself
(b) her 2. look for infection/ inflammation and manage it with empathy, not just as a disease 3. honor the organ for emotional togetherness - don't abuse it as hardcore fetish. If you really have bilateral love there is no reason that these measures would fail. BEST OF LUCK
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reader, xox +, writes (15 May 2007):
hi, like everyone else said their is a chance she is pregnent but hopefully you are smart and use pretection and like everyone else said she might just be due on as i get that when i'm due. i have had my nipples sucked though and i don't want to be rude but i did not find it atall stimulating but like they said just ask her and good luck!
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reader, Farris +, writes (13 May 2007):
 As everyone else has said, she might be pregnant, and she may be pre-menstrual. Or there is the possibility that she just doesn't like it as much as you do.
The only real way that you can be certain what's going on is to ask her. All you have to do is sit her down, and just ask her why she's suddenly not keen on your sucking her nipples. Look her in the eyes and she'll see how serious you are, and hopefully she will be able to tell you the truth, even if it is nothing more than her just having sore nipples.
If you want to make doubly sure mention to her that you read somewhere than women's nipples get sore when they're pregnant and see how she reacts.
It's the only real way to know!
Best wishes & Good luck!
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female
reader, sophiie  +, writes (13 May 2007):
she could be pregnent but its more likley to be that certain time of the month.. happend to me all the time =]
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): it could be that shes pregnant, or just pre- menstrual as this happens 2 me evry month for about a week before i start my period. ask her.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): If she seems irritable about it, she could be pregnant and afraid to tell you; but she might also simply not find much stimulation from the act. If it's not something she enjoys, then you two need to compromise; settle for sucking gently and kissing around her nipples, just on her breasts. She might even find that you're too rough and that your sucking is making her sore but doesn't want to bruise your ego, or annoy you. Talking to her openly asking is the only way you'll find out. Best of luck.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 May 2007):
 Girls breasts get sore when theyre pregnant, when theyre on their period or just randomly. I think if she was pregnant she might think to mention it to you.
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