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writes:okay,me and my girlfriend met two months ago and we made it official. One the first day we met she told me she had a crush on me over text. I've decided to get into a relationship with her, at the same time i told i wanted something serious and long lasting. so she accepted, we went out on dates, cuddle, play video games even sing and dedicate song to each other. there were always romantic and special moments. we even share our stuff together, like clothes, jewelry, sneakers etc. But theres a problem she told me she smoke weed from time to time. I wasn't mad due to the fact she was doing it, she started doing it when she was young. i told her how i felt about her smoking weed and i wanted her to stop if she didnt it will be over. i just wanted to show that i cared and bring in positive attitude as well. i just want something good for us because i like her so much.The reason she smokes is just to chill and release stress but she only does it at home.She wants to stop but at the same time its hard for her because she surrounded by it. It made me insecure a little and she started to notice that. she said to me she cares, likes me, find me attractive and started to feel comfortable being with me.But 3 days ago it started to go down the drain, it was the time of the month she was in pain. on the first day during the middle of the day we would text but never received anything later on that day. on day second day no call or text. Then on day 3 same thing, but this time i went to her house and got no respond either. on day 4 i just ask her what going on do you want some time off, her response was "things aren't headed the right way. i think we need some time off. ill drop off your things tomorrow, sorry i fucked up." that was the last message i every got from her. well she never came to my house to drop of my things. Is that a sign that she still wants to be with me ? idk Im confused, probably i annoyed her with text and voice mails i was leaving her these past days. i really don't want to leave her , she makes me so happy and she happy to have me as well. someone help please should i stay and wait or move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2012): Thanks, Ive decided to mOve on. I've gotten my stuff as well when I went to see her. She seem like she wasn't in the mood to talk but at the same time she had that undecided face. She will realize someday that she had a caring person around her. Sometimes we don't ask for much just someone to appreciate who we truly are. Sounds easy but it can be a challenge for others but hey it's never the wrong time or day to atleast try to value everything we have in front of us. ...
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (15 September 2012):
 Doesn't sound too positive to me. 'Sorry i f***ed up' perhaps she is doing weed still and can't stop as it has become part of her life.
I don't think you should of threatened her with if she doesn't quit you'll end it with her because she's been using it to help her i am not saying that it's a good thing to do but perhaps talk to her find out what is going on.
otherwise i'd leave her to do her own ting and move on with your life.
She may have cheated on you because she felt you pushed her away i don't know you'll have to try and talk to her to find out.
I hope it works out for you.
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