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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now and we really love each other we talk about how we want to get married have kids etc. We have our ups and downs but recently there has been a lot of downs and i think that the long distance and the fact that i have strict parents does not help the situation at all. He lives 2 hours away from me and this is frustrating because he works and i am a uni student. He gets off work at 5 everyday and I get to his place at 7 but we only spend about 4 hours together because i have to make sure i dont miss my train back home and i cant see him all the time due to the travel hours and the cost although sometimes he does help pay my travel.. And the fact that i can only see him in the evening is causing me to get home at about 1am -2am and this pisses my mom off. Im still under my parents roof and im not alowed to have a boyfriend until im 22 or sometimes my mom says till i start working so i cant invite him over.I cant even bring up having a boyfriend to her.He usualy wants me to stay with him every weekend because thats when he is free but its really hard to make up excuses to my parents and ive only succesfuly spent the weekend with him about 3 times due to the help of friends. But i can tell his starting to get anoyed with the fact that im not alowed to have a boyfriend or sleep over at his house. He wants to move in with me when i finish university but knowing my strict parents theres no way it will happen.Im really scared that all of this will cause me to loose him but im caught in the midle of him and my parents. I dont want to disapoint them and at the same time i dont want to disapoint him. Someone please help meI really dont know what too do its all a bit too much now. Please help
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