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writes:I'm 17 (18 in May) and i have been talking to this boy who is 18, (19 in June). We go to the same college, and have seen each other a few times but not actually spent time together yet. We're texting almost everyday and I'm starting to like him (i hate how this sounds so cliche) My previous relationship was pretty awful and i never tell anybody about it because i feel embarrassed about it and what happened. I'm scared that i'm going to fall for this guy but he won't be interested in me as much as i am in him. I don't want to have trust issues or come across as annoying maybe. I'd like advice and help please on how to get over my previous relationship and what happened :( and how i will know if this guy i am texting likes me back. It would be much appreciated, thankyou.
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (15 September 2012):
 Well only way really too get over that previous relationship and build trust issues is to see this for a bit.
Get to know him go out on dates and things and see how that goes then maybe you can open up to him a bit more because you will both be getting to know each other better.
Ask him on a date or ask him if he wants to hang out sometime see how he reacts to your offer.
Take your time getting to know him though so you can be sure as to whether you are going to be a match or not and ensure you keep things about your past relationship under the hat until you are entirely sure you can trust this guy because he could end up using those things against you or treating you the same way.
Best of luck hope this helps.
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